Wand vibrators have undoubtedly earned their place in the hearts (and bedrooms) of many, and it's not hard to see why! With their larger heads and potent motors, these vibrators offer a delightful range of possibilities. They come equipped with elongated handles that make maneuvering a breeze, and some even offer interchangeable attachments to elevate your experience. But once you've got one of these powerhouses in your hands, how can you make the most of it? While the simplest answer might be "for orgasms," the truth is, wand vibrators can serve you in a variety of exciting ways:
1. Quick and Easy Orgasms
The profound and resonating vibrations of wands like the Doxy, Viben Sultry, or Fun Factory Vim delve deeply into stimulating the internal parts of the clitoris. But the pleasure doesn't stop there – wand vibes can also work wonders on penises, particularly on the frenulum, balls, or the perineum. What's more, these vibes can be utilized on a non-erect penis, providing a unique sensation.
The sheer size and intensity of wand vibrations make reaching climax a breeze. While preferences vary from person to person, many find that wands are their go-to when they're feeling tired or simply pressed for time. With just the press of a button and a snug placement of the wand head, pleasure is just moments away.
2. Pleasure While Going Down
Performing oral sex is a delightful experience on its own, but sometimes, the desire to receive while giving takes over. Wands prove to be excellent companions for self-pleasure while engaging in oral activities. They require minimal attention beyond holding them in place, and depending on your position, you might not even need to do that. As an added bonus, the powerful vibrations are sure to elicit a symphony of moans, enhancing the entire encounter.
The Satisfyer Wand-er even allows you to adjust intensity through an app, offering you and your partner(s) the chance for an even more mutual and exhilarating exchange.
3. Share Pleasure with Partner(s)
Unlike many sex toys designed with specific genital configurations in mind, wands are incredibly versatile. They transcend boundaries and can be enjoyed by a range of body types and configurations.
"Wands are the great equalizers of sex toys: they can be used on any body type. They’re not to everyone’s taste – not everyone enjoys strong, broadly-applied vibrations – but they have the potential to please most participants," as I wrote in my piece "Wand Vibrators are For Everybody." "Partnered sex with wands can be amazing. Couples who like tribbing or frottage, for example, can slide in a wand to mutual benefit."
In fact, for those seeking a scissoring experience, a seamless waterproof wand might just be your perfect match.
4. Exploring Forced Orgasms
"Forced orgasms are orgasms that you (consensually) coax forth through sheer power – whether you’re ready or not!" I delve into this concept in "Ouch, I Like It." It's a fantastic avenue for delving into dominance and submission dynamics with a partner, allowing one partner to control the pace of the other's pleasure. What better way to assert dominance in bed? "Wand vibrators like the Doxy, the 'Hitachi' Magic Wand, and the Viben are a fan favorite for forced orgasms because of their large heads (which are too big to wriggle away from) and incredibly strong vibrations."
5. Engage in a Playful Race
Partners who enjoy gaming, sports, or exercising together will understand the allure of competition. If winning a playful bet – say, evading dishwashing duties for a week – excites you, competitive masturbation could be right up your alley.
Whether it's a race to climax first, a contest to see who can hold out the longest, or a challenge to see who can achieve the most orgasms, wand vibrators level the playing field. For a hands-free competition, consider using a sex toy mount like the Liberator Wanda or Axis. This allows you and your opponent(s) to focus on the game, leaving your hands free for a little playful sabotage.
6. Enhancing Doggy Style
From "10 Ways to Spice Up Doggy Style": "Doggy style is great for a number of things, but it can be difficult to reliably reach your genitals when you’re on your hands and knees. Especially if you have short arms, a prominent belly, etc. Sex toys can help us reach further than our fingers – but sex toys with handles can do even better."
In my experience, wands with curved handles – like the BMS PalmPower Extreme or the O Wand Massager – work particularly well for doggy style. Their shape makes it easier to angle them upwards and into the perfect position. If you have a penis and prefer enveloping sensations from your toys, the "Man" Wand Xtreme even comes with a stroker attachment.
In the realm of pleasure, wand vibrators are veritable powerhouses, offering a multitude of exciting avenues to explore. From self-discovery to shared enjoyment, these versatile devices unlock a world of pleasure possibilities.
