Sexual desire is not only the opening of sex, but also the foreplay of sex. However, sex is concerned with atmosphere, and a strong sexual atmosphere needs to be created by both partners. So how to make the sexual atmosphere more intense?
Six ways to make love break through and make the atmosphere thick
Dressing game
Perhaps the way you used to undress her was to quickly remove or roughly rip her clothes. This method may be exciting, but it's more disgusting. Try this game by fixing your hand and then slowly peeling and rolling off her clothes with your mouth and tongue. At the same time, you may wish to stimulate her sensitive areas. If there is music, that would be the icing on the cake.
Reminder: the other party's clothes should be moderate, otherwise it will take a long time to undress.
Kitchen sex
Are you still always just having sex in bed? Sex that stays in bed forever is really boring. Change the place, like the kitchen. Dinner can be very informative if you arrange dinner for him in the kitchen wearing only an apron. This is the time to use some sex toys that will take the woman into the unknown world of orgasm and ignite the desire of both partners. Make love in the kitchen.
Reminder:Kitchen curtains must be well blocked!
Hide and seek
One of you blindfolds your partner with a handkerchief to ensure complete invisibility, allowing him to determine the other's location based on his partner's voice, and then find the other in the shortest possible time. Of course, the rules should be clear that even if they can't be found, the loser should be punished, and the punishment is that the loser should serve their lover in the least sexual way they want to do.
Reminder:Don't pile too much mess in the room. If you are not blindfolded, you should keep the blindfolded person safe!
Variety time
Both of you get some small pieces of paper and write down, one by one, the ways you have secretly desired or wondered about sex and collect them in a hat or a large bowl. Then take one out at random and discuss the topics on it. If both people agree, try this approach. This method is great for sharing mutual desires.
Reminder: your request step by step incrementally, otherwise it is a small thing to be rejected and freak each other out and not play the game in the future, it is not worth it!
Doing stucco work
I was doing my makeup that day and he hugged me tightly from behind. I grabbed a brush and gently brushed it across his face, and up to and inner thighs. He told me later that he had never tried such a temptation before. So I later tried shoe brushes, toothbrushes, and a host of other things.
Reminder:Pay attention to the texture of the brush!
Pornographic film hero and heroine
He ordered a large mirror. It was usually placed in the bathroom and leaned against the wall next to our bed at key moments. We can clearly see our passionate movements, our sexy bodies and our excited expressions. It was like a movie in the mirror, where the main character was ourselves.
Reminder:There is no contraindication, just a bit of hassle to move the mirror running around. Of course, you have to remember that you are moving the mirror before making love, not when you suddenly remember to move it during sex. In this case, the passionate movie may stop filming.
The use of condoms
For women, it is a method of contraception second only to the oral contraceptive pill in terms of comfort. Although your male partner complains loudly about the hassle, disposable condoms are 99.6% effective in preventing pregnancy.
Tip: In fact, this practice of male dominance of feelings in the contraceptive process should be changed. Contraception must be dominated by women, since it is they who unilaterally bear the consequences of the sexual act. Wives can find opportunities to talk to their husbands and try to agree on the use of condoms. Of course, do not be righteous and strict when talking about and doing it. Do not let the other person think that he is fulfilling his obligations and making sacrifices unilaterally, but rather emphasize the interest in wearing condoms. A variety of colored fruit-colored condoms, ultra-thin and raised condoms may bring fantasies to the boudoir. The key is how you entice him to complete this vivid foreplay with him.
Condoms have been shown to be welcomed by twice as many men over the age of 35 as men over the age of 27. As they get older at marriage, they find more benefits from condoms, such as longer ejaculation times and greater mutual satisfaction.
